In this era of HIV, it can be quite challenging when HIV comes into a marriage. Worse still, there are cases of discordant couples which to date scientists are still struggling to understand. What would you do when you face such a situation? Here, marriage counseling would be very critical as you will need to know the possibilities of safety in the marriage and also happiness.
First of all, the marriage counselors would help calm your emotions. They will help you understand and accept the problem or the situation. That it is possible for one partner to be infected while the other is not and that you can still live together and even enjoy sexual relations without infecting the other.
At first, it may sound like a fairy tale, an impossible situation to cope with but after several sessions with the counselor, you would accept it. You may not understand so many things about the situation but you would need to keep learning. Eventually, you will get the truth and it will be fine.
Counseling is very handy. Psychological distress can really harm your marriage. You can address these issues before they get out of hand and your marriage will be safe with you again.